Stop fighting and fall back in love

Repair your relationship and reconnect with your spouse

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Hi! I’m Valery.

I help couples on the brink of divorce rebuild, repair, and reconnect with their marriage. As a therapist for almost 15 years, I know what it takes to make marriage work.  But, I also know how painful it feels when you’re struggling in your relationship.

Because I’m not just a therapist.  I’m also a wife and mom.  My family and my marriage mean the world to me. 

I know yours does too.  That’s why you’re here.

Because you’re not ready to give up.  But, you’re also not sure what to do, where to turn, or how to fix your marriage. You know something needs to change, but you don’t know what to do or how to get started.

The good news is you don’t have to figure this out on your own.  I can help. Let me tell you about your roadmap to communicate, connect, and (finally!) stop fighting with your partner.

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Here’s how the “Relationship Roadmap” works.

When you join the “Relationship Roadmap,” I’ll help you . . .

  • Stop the constant cycle of fighting, making up, and cooling down in your marriage . . .

  • Figure out what to do when your partner tries to pick a fight or gives you the silent treatment instead of just talking to you about what’s wrong . . .

  • Get your partner to see your point of view and learn how to talk effectively as a couple, even when you disagree with each other . . . 

  • Escape roommate mode and reconnect, even if there hasn’t been any real intimacy in your marriage for years . . .

  • Figure out what to say when your partner nags you constantly for sex, but doesn’t woo you or put in the effort to connect . . . 

  • Feel more loved, cared for, and confident about your marriage and the future.

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When you join the “Relationship Roadmap,” you’ll learn:

  • How to communicate with your partner without starting an argument or making them shut down . . .

  • How to have a productive conversation and solve the problems that make you fight . . .

  • How to improve your emotional connection and have more fun in your marriage . . .

  • How to let go of the past and rebuild trust so you can focus on the future . . .

  • How to make your significant other happy and feel more “in love” again.

This is your roadmap to fixing your marriage . . . for good.

Scroll down the page and take a look at everything we’ll do in my proven program to help you break the cycle of constant fighting in your marriage and fall back in love again. 

Then, complete the application and schedule your FREE consultation to get started.

Infographic of 9 Step Relationship Roadmap.

 Try out the program risk-free!

Simply submit your free application and schedule a call.

Your first consultation is free. If you decide that the Repair Your Relationship Roadmap isn’t right for you, you’re under no obligation to move forward with the program.

FAQ

  • The Relationship Roadmap Program is a 9-step program designed just for couples like you. Similar to couples therapy, the Relationship Roadmap guides you as you reset, reconnect, and rebuild your relationship. However, this 9-step program takes couples therapy to the next level.

    In this program, you’ll learn the tools and skills you need to overcome the struggles in your marriage and maintain a healthy relationship, forever. During the next 90 days, you’ll participate in weekly couples therapy sessions (50 minutes), get hands-on support and guidance as you navigate the challenges in your partnership, and develop a new tool kit to communicate with your partner and reconnect as a couple.

    The goal is to help you stop fighting and start reconnecting in 90 days.

  • Through our work together in session and on your own, you’ll work through each step of the 9 step program individually and as a couple. Each week we’ll work together to navigate the challenges in your relationship, and each week I’ll give you actionable steps and take-home skills to practice with your partner. We’ll also problem-solve new ways to overcome the obstacles in your marriage and make a plan for lasting change.

  • This program is for couples in a long-term relationship and/or married who are committed to working on their relationship and taking the next steps to rebuild their connection. Whether you’re confident that you will fix your marriage or uncertain about the future, this program is for you. This program is designed for couples who are currently living together OR separated. However, this program is not for couples who have decided to end their relationship or are actively seeking a divorce. If you’re on the fence about continuing your relationship and you can’t decide if you should stay or go, Discernment Counseling might be a better fit.

  • Reach out! I’d be happy to answer any questions via email. And remember, the application and consultation is FREE. If you’re not happy with our work or decide that this program isn’t right for you after our first meeting, you’re under no obligation to move forward in the program.

Getting started is easy!

Complete the application below. Once you have completed the application, you will be invited to schedule your FREE 45-minute consultation with me to see if the program is right for you.